How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn’t transparent about his past, it hurts me and he doesn’t care. I told him in the beginning of our relationship that it was a deal breaker for me what do I do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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What I need from you?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

That's it for today.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.